Hey Reader, Some homes have rules taped to the refrigerator. Take your shoes off. Put your dishes in the sink. Don’t leave the door unlocked. Be home by ten. And then there are other rules. The ones nobody says out loud, but everybody knows. Don’t upset him. Don’t ask too many questions. Don’t tell anyone what happens here. Don’t cry too loudly. Don’t be too happy, too sad, too needy, too confident, too independent, too much. Don’t make things worse. These are the rules that don’t get written...